Marbella: the Good outweighs the Bad and downright Ugly

A recent BBC documentary caused a storm of controversy, since it showed life at the Costa del Sol in quite a negative light. The TV programme's producers stood accused of presenting a rather biased view, having mostly interviewed Spanish people, who aired their views of expats in quite outspoken terms.

Despite the fact that Spain has welcomed record numbers of foreign visitors over the last couple of years, among them many Brits, the Spanish people who were interviewed had little positive to say about British neighbours. Noisy, unfriendly, uppity and stand-offish were only some of the words used to describe Brits living at the Costa del Sol. The Costa del Sol is once again in the news as the "oik-central of Europe", but there are two sides to every coin.

Life is what you make it, no matter where you move to. Interestingly, the Brits living inland came in for quite a bit of praise from their Spanish neighbours. Here it seems, expats mingle with locals and don't keep aloof. They learn the language and communicate in Spanish, they eat Spanish cuisine and spend money in shops, restaurants and bars run by Spanish families. Everybody's happy. Simples!

Expats who don't learn the language, don't mix with their Spanish neighbours and don't embrace the laid-back Spanish lifestyle, won't be happy, no matter how lovely their villa might be or the view that comes with it. And it's so easy to make new - Spanish and cosmopolitan - friends at the Costa del Sol.

There are numerous clubs and for those seeking an active lifestyle when they move to Marbella, there are plenty of opportunities to get involved outside of expat circles. It is essential to learn Spanish though!

Cycling in Marbella

There are cycling clubs and places that offer guided tours between Marbella and Ronda for example; a 35 km downhill cycling adventure that starts on one of the Costa del Sol highest points and trundles downhill along mountain trails until reaching Marbella affords plenty of opportunity to chat along the way. Run by professional guides, the tour takes up to 4 hours, and requires participants to have some prior cycling skill.

Mountain Climbing in Marbella

Learn basic mountain climbing skills with experienced instructors at the foot of the Sierra Blanca Mountain that overlooks Marbella. What better way to get acquainted with like-minded, fun loving people? You will be shown how to use ropes and learn basic mountain climbing techniques, including exercises that involve a spirited team effort and how to use a zip line suspended some 15 meters above ground.

Hiking in Marbella

Why not join a few guided walks until you get to know the area a bit better and go hiking unguided in the Sierra Blanca Mountain area? Starting easy with a half-day guided hike, you'll experience Marbella's fragrant olive and orange orchards along the way and see plenty of local wildlife.

Sailing in Marbella

Ever wanted to sail a schooner but were put off by the price tag such charter would command? Collective sailing excursions in Marbella Port allow potential pirates and their families to enjoy the luxury of a wonderful sailing vessel at a fraction of the cost. Learn about the ancient art of sailing, go swimming and spot dolphins along the way. The schooner cruise also provides you with a great opportunity to get to know your fellow passengers. Not all of them will be short-term tourists; some may be residents staying in their Marbella holiday home for the greater part of the year.

Off-road Trips to Ronda

Several companies run off-road, 4x4 jeep tours to historic Ronda, one of the loveliest mountain towns near Marbella. Set in the picturesque Sierra de Ronda mountain range, the town perches ca. 739 meters above sea level and offers visitors spectacular views. Stop off at the El Tajo Gorge, before enjoying a meal in the centre of Ronda.

Just this small selection of activities shows that getting involved is not that difficult, provided one engages with people, learns the lingo and is willing to change one's attitude from wintery Brit-mode to heart-warming Spain.